If you talk about women or girls with the undertone of “I like girls with freckles they’re so sexy” or ”I love it when a girl’s parts look this way oh god” or even “Girls who play video games well are so much hotter than girls who don’t” or “I love it when a girl is shy” or “the sexiest thing a girl can do is dye her hair weird colors.”
Stop. Full stop.
You need to stop calling yourself a romantic. You need to stop telling yourself that you love women. You need to stop telling yourself you’re so great and so deserving because you appreciate the diversity in women. Because you do not. You appreciate the potential they hold in terms of validating your own life.
Now quit that nonsense.